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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 47437" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Thank you all</p><p></p><p>I have decided NOT to contact the mom</p><p></p><p>I now see that my reasoning behind contacting her was to validate my own self. To prove to her that I was a good mom and I was doing what a good mom should do by not "helping" my son while he was using and destroying himself. </p><p></p><p>I know what line my son crossed to be asked to leave.</p><p></p><p></p><p>My son knows what line he crossed to be out of the home.</p><p></p><p></p><p>That is really all that matters.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I want to speed the process of him hitting bottom and finally looking up and I am too aware that as long as there is someone cushioning his fall he won't get there.</p><p></p><p>I cannot manipulate the situation any longer. To let go is to completely let go.</p><p></p><p>Thank you all for being there to help me work through this :flower:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 47437, member: 2389"] Thank you all I have decided NOT to contact the mom I now see that my reasoning behind contacting her was to validate my own self. To prove to her that I was a good mom and I was doing what a good mom should do by not "helping" my son while he was using and destroying himself. I know what line my son crossed to be asked to leave. My son knows what line he crossed to be out of the home. That is really all that matters. I want to speed the process of him hitting bottom and finally looking up and I am too aware that as long as there is someone cushioning his fall he won't get there. I cannot manipulate the situation any longer. To let go is to completely let go. Thank you all for being there to help me work through this [img]:flower:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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