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Sexual acting out - does it always mean a person was sexually abused?
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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 448658" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>you've all given me such a different perspcetive. As a few have pointe out, see seemed to be looking for the "love" connection mostly. I told the therapist of a story when I had a bunch of kids at the house to play. There were 7-8 all around the same ages (6 & 7). I noticed difficult child was not with the crowd and found her in her bed, fully clothed,under the covers with a nieghbor boy. I shooed them out and asked why they were there. "We're playing married" she replied. I made it clear that playing married wasn't going to happen again. therapist thoguht this was significant along with her hyper chasing of boys and, of course, the internet porn spree later on.</p><p></p><p>In reading your responses, I see it differently. She never acted sexual toward her prey (lol) in the younger years. She always wanted to steal a kiss, hold hands (whch we put a stop to whenever possible) .. I'm talking preschool through elementary ... but she never exposed herself or touched somone inappropriately (that i know of).</p><p></p><p>She talked of sex but didn't seem to know what it meant. When I found the letter, I sat her down and gently explained. She ws mortivied ... for a while.</p><p></p><p>I think the internet porn did have a big affect on her. I wish we could have seen that one coming.</p><p></p><p>Even in her hyperssexual behavior now, she seems to be looking for some kind of grand love. I felt bad this morning, her tumblr (it is public she knows I see it from time to time) page had all these photos of beautiful brides, brides and grooms kissing and then, right next to that, a few FU diabribes about the world! She's so confused.</p><p></p><p>The more I read about bi-polar through your experiences, the more I am convinced it's that - or something like that.</p><p></p><p>And thanks, TL, for being so understanding about the grieving. I'm hoping the anger stage hits today so I can pull weeds and get the grass cut!</p><p>Dash</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 448658, member: 9175"] you've all given me such a different perspcetive. As a few have pointe out, see seemed to be looking for the "love" connection mostly. I told the therapist of a story when I had a bunch of kids at the house to play. There were 7-8 all around the same ages (6 & 7). I noticed difficult child was not with the crowd and found her in her bed, fully clothed,under the covers with a nieghbor boy. I shooed them out and asked why they were there. "We're playing married" she replied. I made it clear that playing married wasn't going to happen again. therapist thoguht this was significant along with her hyper chasing of boys and, of course, the internet porn spree later on. In reading your responses, I see it differently. She never acted sexual toward her prey (lol) in the younger years. She always wanted to steal a kiss, hold hands (whch we put a stop to whenever possible) .. I'm talking preschool through elementary ... but she never exposed herself or touched somone inappropriately (that i know of). She talked of sex but didn't seem to know what it meant. When I found the letter, I sat her down and gently explained. She ws mortivied ... for a while. I think the internet porn did have a big affect on her. I wish we could have seen that one coming. Even in her hyperssexual behavior now, she seems to be looking for some kind of grand love. I felt bad this morning, her tumblr (it is public she knows I see it from time to time) page had all these photos of beautiful brides, brides and grooms kissing and then, right next to that, a few FU diabribes about the world! She's so confused. The more I read about bi-polar through your experiences, the more I am convinced it's that - or something like that. And thanks, TL, for being so understanding about the grieving. I'm hoping the anger stage hits today so I can pull weeds and get the grass cut! Dash [/QUOTE]
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