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Sexual acting out - does it always mean a person was sexually abused?
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 448747" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Dash..your daughter sounds a whole lot like me as a child. I remember playing doctor with the little neighborhood kids and we even took our clothes off. I remember we took temperatures with sticks...lol. Yeah I know. Ick. But back then we knew just basics from those little doctor kits we had from the toy stores. I also got caught buck naked in a tent with a neighbor boy playing married but all we did was lay on a sleeping bag together and think well...whats the big deal? LOL. </p><p></p><p>Then when I was about 6 or so, some older boys...maybe 8 or so, got our little group to play spin the bottle with them and got us to kiss them. I remember thinking it was interesting but no big deal. I wanted to be wanted though so I went along with whatever the group wanted to do. I so had this need to be wanted and liked. I had this deep drive looking for love that lasted most of my life.</p><p></p><p>This part is going to sound extremely strange here so bear with me. When I was a teen, I was extremely naive about sex. I was in private school for most of my elementary school years so I hit junior high with almost no knowledge about it at all. I was an only child so I had always said I wanted a huge family...6 to 10 kids. However, when I learned what you had to do to get kids, I was so turned off that I said I would adopt them! And that was at 13...lol. By 14 I was sexually active so I did a whole lot of changing! One thing though was that I always swore that I would never sleep with anyone that didnt say they loved me. Ha! Well, I didnt realize that boys could say that really easily and not mean it. To me, anyone who said it meant it. I got used and passed around like yesterday's newspaper. I didnt understand either. I thought there was something wrong with me! I wasnt good enough. Where was the love? </p><p></p><p>Needless to say, me and Tony's song is Looking for Love in all the wrong places...lol.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 448747, member: 1514"] Dash..your daughter sounds a whole lot like me as a child. I remember playing doctor with the little neighborhood kids and we even took our clothes off. I remember we took temperatures with sticks...lol. Yeah I know. Ick. But back then we knew just basics from those little doctor kits we had from the toy stores. I also got caught buck naked in a tent with a neighbor boy playing married but all we did was lay on a sleeping bag together and think well...whats the big deal? LOL. Then when I was about 6 or so, some older boys...maybe 8 or so, got our little group to play spin the bottle with them and got us to kiss them. I remember thinking it was interesting but no big deal. I wanted to be wanted though so I went along with whatever the group wanted to do. I so had this need to be wanted and liked. I had this deep drive looking for love that lasted most of my life. This part is going to sound extremely strange here so bear with me. When I was a teen, I was extremely naive about sex. I was in private school for most of my elementary school years so I hit junior high with almost no knowledge about it at all. I was an only child so I had always said I wanted a huge family...6 to 10 kids. However, when I learned what you had to do to get kids, I was so turned off that I said I would adopt them! And that was at 13...lol. By 14 I was sexually active so I did a whole lot of changing! One thing though was that I always swore that I would never sleep with anyone that didnt say they loved me. Ha! Well, I didnt realize that boys could say that really easily and not mean it. To me, anyone who said it meant it. I got used and passed around like yesterday's newspaper. I didnt understand either. I thought there was something wrong with me! I wasnt good enough. Where was the love? Needless to say, me and Tony's song is Looking for Love in all the wrong places...lol. [/QUOTE]
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