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Shake those beads folks - when it rains it pours
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 313573" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Awww (((Hugs))) Beads rattling here strongly for you, your sister and your poor mom. </p><p></p><p>I completely understand you not wanting to overwhelm your sister with news of your difficult child. However, if she's going to be feeling hurt/pain because she wonders why you aren't heading to her and your mom to offer some help, perhaps you can "lightly" word the way you do fill her in that there are things up with difficult child. Maybe telling her there is some stuff going down with difficult child, and if it weren't for that, of course you'd be there to help. If she tries for details, a loving "sis, you've got so much on your plate and I love you and I think maybe when things settle down with you and mom would be a better time for us to talk about difficult child's issues. For now, I want you to concentrate on yourself because you're important to me and I can talk about difficult child stuff with his docs etc". </p><p></p><p>Then she'll know somethings up, understand why you can't be with her and your mom, without overloading her with worries?? </p><p></p><p>So sorry it is pouring buckets. I hope a shining light beams down to you all and with it, some relief!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 313573, member: 4264"] Awww (((Hugs))) Beads rattling here strongly for you, your sister and your poor mom. I completely understand you not wanting to overwhelm your sister with news of your difficult child. However, if she's going to be feeling hurt/pain because she wonders why you aren't heading to her and your mom to offer some help, perhaps you can "lightly" word the way you do fill her in that there are things up with difficult child. Maybe telling her there is some stuff going down with difficult child, and if it weren't for that, of course you'd be there to help. If she tries for details, a loving "sis, you've got so much on your plate and I love you and I think maybe when things settle down with you and mom would be a better time for us to talk about difficult child's issues. For now, I want you to concentrate on yourself because you're important to me and I can talk about difficult child stuff with his docs etc". Then she'll know somethings up, understand why you can't be with her and your mom, without overloading her with worries?? So sorry it is pouring buckets. I hope a shining light beams down to you all and with it, some relief! [/QUOTE]
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