These are really good talks on Vulnerability and shame. Enjoy!
http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_listening_to_shame.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_listening_to_shame.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html