One last word on Esther's original message - sometimes we are not aware of the cultural differences between us. Perhaps Esther & I are a little more aware, because we strike it more often (we are the different ones to a larger extent).
The example - the "Name Game" song here, is one that was outside my realm of experience. Since I found out a bit more about it, I've been running through other things I've read or seen over the years and I'm finally realising things I didn't 'get" were probably a reference to this song. If you didn't actually live through the time when this happened, then your life has taken a slightly different path. it's easy to forget this or not realise this, when everyone else around you understands where you are coming from.
On this site we all have so much in common, especially with our kids, that it's easy to not realise that in a lot of areas, we may not have the same meeting of minds.
Yes, we've digressed. In digressing, we've strayed back into territory where our understanding is much more mutual. We see horses with plaited manes here too, I even have horse brasses hanging in the house. Like Star, I love the large Clydesdales and similar breeds (so does husband). So there - we're on the same wavelength.
I do find cultural differences fascinating, and they can also be very unexpected. I often use Aussie slang and have learnt that sometimes I need to explain myself, which surprises me because where I live, everyone understands me.
In Australia, we've had a history of people coming here and not always understanding us, so perhaps we're a bit more used to having to translate. An Aussie author wrote a wonderful, funny book about this in the early 60s - it was called "They're a Weird Mob". In the book, an Italian journalist with perfect English moves to Australia, and rapidly discovers that although he speaks English, he can't understand what people are saying. Because the book was written 50 years ago, the language has once more shifted. It has, in fact, shifted much more to the US model. So much so, that our younger people especially, consider themselves to be fluent in US culture and language. Completely.
They are wrong. Perhaps they are more fluent, but there will always be cultural differences.
That is not necessarily a bad ting - I revel in the uniqueness of various parts of the world. I want one day to go to Paris and see the Eiffel Tower; to go to New York and look at the Statue of Liberty (same designer, but we won't go there!); to check out Disneyland, to go see the Grand Canyon, to visit so many places. I've been to Athens and walked around the Acropolis. I've walked deep underground in the labyrinth of the palace of Knossos on Crete.
If we lose our uniqueness in order to have no cultural barriers, it will be a tragedy.
But the flipside of this is - we need to always be aware that there ARE cultural differences, and to help one another through them.
Thanks, everybody, for an ultimately entertaining and informative thread.
Marg