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She moved into the women's shelter
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 609891" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>My difficult child always manipulated me by telling me I was the only family he had. It made me feel very guilt if I wasn't constantly available.</p><p></p><p>I'm not sure if some of their dependence is not just habit, it's so much easier to have us do it for them. During the past 12 months that my difficult child was not speaking to me he as not fared any worse without my help. At least he has a job and a place to stay and I didn't do anything. I took the time to evaluate ME and the things I was still doing to enable and with the detachment life became more peaceful.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad she went to the shelter, mine refused to and would rather spend nights sleeping in the woods. There are programs out there for them if they only try.</p><p></p><p>Enjoy the peace and take care of you.</p><p>(((hugs))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 609891, member: 13558"] My difficult child always manipulated me by telling me I was the only family he had. It made me feel very guilt if I wasn't constantly available. I'm not sure if some of their dependence is not just habit, it's so much easier to have us do it for them. During the past 12 months that my difficult child was not speaking to me he as not fared any worse without my help. At least he has a job and a place to stay and I didn't do anything. I took the time to evaluate ME and the things I was still doing to enable and with the detachment life became more peaceful. I'm glad she went to the shelter, mine refused to and would rather spend nights sleeping in the woods. There are programs out there for them if they only try. Enjoy the peace and take care of you. (((hugs)))) [/QUOTE]
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