Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
She needs to stop getting physical with me
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="idohope" data-source="post: 536231" data-attributes="member: 7722"><p>Thank you for all the replies.</p><p></p><p>Yes, as JJJ said it is a team event and it would not be fair to the other girls. </p><p></p><p>The amusement park is near the tournament so I cant have her stay with stbx but I have been using the fact that she has to earn it back to moderate her behavior since then and it has been acceptable.</p><p></p><p>She was on ability briefly 2 year ago. DEX was not very supportive of medications. difficult child had chronic stomach pain while on it. He cut the dose the first day he had to medicate her (psychiatrist had said to try another week or two at initial dose and make sure difficult child had something to eat prior to medication and then cut dose if that was not working so DEX immediately cut the dose). Then difficult child refused to take it at all. DEX and I communicate a little better since the divorce. Maybe I should see if he would be OK with a prn medication and then go back to psychiatrist. If difficult child really ramps up and is getting physical I could tell her take the pill or I call the police.</p><p></p><p>She does see a therapist regularly but difficult child is mostly in denial that there is a problem and therapist has not been getting too far. Last session difficult child refused to talk to her at all. Maybe next session we will focus on this incident. therapist and I have talked about it being a priority that difficult child must stop physically hurting me, particularly as she gets older. </p><p></p><p>In the past I have told her that I would call the police. But I felt this time that it was not physical enough to justify it.</p><p></p><p>TerryJ2: I think it was you posting about camping out in the bathroom...forgive me if it was someone else. I know my story does sound (sadly) familiar to you and others on this board. Sorry that we all have to be here but am so glad that you all are and that there are others that truly understand these situations.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="idohope, post: 536231, member: 7722"] Thank you for all the replies. Yes, as JJJ said it is a team event and it would not be fair to the other girls. The amusement park is near the tournament so I cant have her stay with stbx but I have been using the fact that she has to earn it back to moderate her behavior since then and it has been acceptable. She was on ability briefly 2 year ago. DEX was not very supportive of medications. difficult child had chronic stomach pain while on it. He cut the dose the first day he had to medicate her (psychiatrist had said to try another week or two at initial dose and make sure difficult child had something to eat prior to medication and then cut dose if that was not working so DEX immediately cut the dose). Then difficult child refused to take it at all. DEX and I communicate a little better since the divorce. Maybe I should see if he would be OK with a prn medication and then go back to psychiatrist. If difficult child really ramps up and is getting physical I could tell her take the pill or I call the police. She does see a therapist regularly but difficult child is mostly in denial that there is a problem and therapist has not been getting too far. Last session difficult child refused to talk to her at all. Maybe next session we will focus on this incident. therapist and I have talked about it being a priority that difficult child must stop physically hurting me, particularly as she gets older. In the past I have told her that I would call the police. But I felt this time that it was not physical enough to justify it. TerryJ2: I think it was you posting about camping out in the bathroom...forgive me if it was someone else. I know my story does sound (sadly) familiar to you and others on this board. Sorry that we all have to be here but am so glad that you all are and that there are others that truly understand these situations. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
She needs to stop getting physical with me
Top