Oh what an interesting turn of events....so difficult child goes to the doctor today, tells the nurse that he may not be the father so not to let him in the room with them. So, hurt, he leaves and leaves her there. (Don't blame him). He texts me and tells me this and tells me that she is 19 weeks - there is no way that it could be his. He was in jail at the time. Says I got my wish, he is out of the picture and is blocking difficult child from contacting him again.
She texts me and tells me that she is 19 weeks. I ask her what she is having and she tells me no idea - no ultrasound done. (Lovely, so we STILL have no idea if there is anything wrong with the baby!!!!). She then tells me it is not too late to abort. So, I gave her the information she needed to make the phone calls. I told her I honestly think that is best and that I will help her.
So, a few hours later when I get out of work I call her and ask if she made any calls. She says NO WAY I am not doing that!!!! I said, huh? She tells me that she heard the heartbeat, she can't do that now (even though she heard the heartbeat before she mentioned it in the first place??). I then tell her that I know it is not M's. She said I am WRONG. I said there is no way it is his with you being 19 weeks. She then tells me that the doctor told her she conceived on December 20th and that SHE counted 19 weeks. I told her she doesn't know how to count if that is the case.
I know it has been a while - but doesn't the doctor tell you how many weeks you are and
then tells you when you most likely conceived???
I smell difficult child trying to scramble to cover and make this baby his even though I don't think it is. The man is 36 years old and has never, ever got a woman pregnant. I never really thought it was his to begin with. The fact that she is still trying to make it his is downright disturbing. But, he is just as disturbed. He said he blocked difficult child from contacting him yet they have been on the phone all day...I have to wonder if he is buying into her BS simply because he has always wanted a child so bad. My goodness, can this situation get any worse???
This is SHEER hades. It has been such a horrible day and this is the only place I can vent about it...I am embarassed to say that husband and I had a glimmer of hope today that she was going to terminate. I see nothing but disaster coming for this baby...and I know husband and I say NO way about raising another child but HE was adopted and had severe emotional problems because of it even though he was adopted by the most perfect family anyone could ask for. I don't know if HE could handle sending his grandchild into the system. Nor I for that matter. Yet I know I want nothing to do with another round of parenting. NOTHING.