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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 124924" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>Maybe you said this and I didn't see. I'm on my first cuppa HMJ, so who knows? If in the three months she's back to her same old self is she out on her hiney anyway? I think you are on the right track. I think husband seems oblivious to reality. Personally, I'd want her to understand that while we are trying to help her get her first month's rent and a plan together, we wouldn't do it at any further sacrifice to our peace. First snotty tirade she has and her stuff is on the lawn and I'm changing the keys, the garage and alarm codes. </p><p></p><p>Maybe I'm hard-hearted, or just worn out from my own thing with M. But weren't you spending the past x number of years getting her ready to be her own woman with her own house? This seems like going above and beyond on your part. I don't doubt at all that she knows that she has manipulated husband into her corner. Whether she appreciates it, I don't know. I would probably have given in to the two of them in your situation as well. But your harder sell, for my money, is your H. He needs to be just as well sold on "Plan B", and he needs to have to backbone to implement it. Or at least not interfere.</p><p></p><p>Big hugs, girlfriend. been there done that, ain't going again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 124924, member: 99"] Maybe you said this and I didn't see. I'm on my first cuppa HMJ, so who knows? If in the three months she's back to her same old self is she out on her hiney anyway? I think you are on the right track. I think husband seems oblivious to reality. Personally, I'd want her to understand that while we are trying to help her get her first month's rent and a plan together, we wouldn't do it at any further sacrifice to our peace. First snotty tirade she has and her stuff is on the lawn and I'm changing the keys, the garage and alarm codes. Maybe I'm hard-hearted, or just worn out from my own thing with M. But weren't you spending the past x number of years getting her ready to be her own woman with her own house? This seems like going above and beyond on your part. I don't doubt at all that she knows that she has manipulated husband into her corner. Whether she appreciates it, I don't know. I would probably have given in to the two of them in your situation as well. But your harder sell, for my money, is your H. He needs to be just as well sold on "Plan B", and he needs to have to backbone to implement it. Or at least not interfere. Big hugs, girlfriend. been there done that, ain't going again. [/QUOTE]
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