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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 124952" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Yes, Witz, you're right on the money, and no, I don't think I mentioned the consequences in my first post. </p><p> </p><p>If difficult child pulls a disappearing act and starts pulling crud, yes, she is out. She knows that much already, I made sure to say that part. H knows it too. </p><p> </p><p>Regarding H and getting him to see what I see, my plan is to not skip a thing - he will know everything I know, he will get reports each and every time she pulls something, there will be no covering or lying or sneaking anything by him. I became so used to his apathetic attitude about helping me with difficult child, that I gave up and as a result he missed out on some of her shenanigans. Anyway, from here on in he will be in the 'know'. He will know things he never wanted to know. I already told him some things last night that I thought I had told him, but apparently I did not. He needs to understand the reasons why I am at the end of my rope and be as outraged as me before we can truly be united on this.</p><p> </p><p>I want my life back pre-difficult child. I want my marriage back...we truly need to rediscover things about ourselves that were muddied and lost through the "difficult child years". H knows this. I used it in my defense the other night. I told him flat out that it's "our turn" now. His heart skipped a beat I think, lol.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 124952, member: 2211"] Yes, Witz, you're right on the money, and no, I don't think I mentioned the consequences in my first post. If difficult child pulls a disappearing act and starts pulling crud, yes, she is out. She knows that much already, I made sure to say that part. H knows it too. Regarding H and getting him to see what I see, my plan is to not skip a thing - he will know everything I know, he will get reports each and every time she pulls something, there will be no covering or lying or sneaking anything by him. I became so used to his apathetic attitude about helping me with difficult child, that I gave up and as a result he missed out on some of her shenanigans. Anyway, from here on in he will be in the 'know'. He will know things he never wanted to know. I already told him some things last night that I thought I had told him, but apparently I did not. He needs to understand the reasons why I am at the end of my rope and be as outraged as me before we can truly be united on this. I want my life back pre-difficult child. I want my marriage back...we truly need to rediscover things about ourselves that were muddied and lost through the "difficult child years". H knows this. I used it in my defense the other night. I told him flat out that it's "our turn" now. His heart skipped a beat I think, lol. [/QUOTE]
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