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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 461899" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Nancy...I wish she would talk to me. Do you think she would. Do you think if I emailed you something she would read it? I would be glad to do it. </p><p></p><p>Im going to take another tack on this. Maybe this child wont be the worst thing in her life. I do wish she would lose the baby daddy though. He isnt just a loser but a hard core drug addict so I dont see anything good coming from this. </p><p></p><p>You know that having my kids was the best thing that happened to me. They caused me to grow up. It is possible that having her own baby will do that for her. It may be that one thing that for her has been missing that you couldnt give her. If she has to work to support this new life and herself, it might keep her to busy to be able to party. Kids take a whole lot of time. They take a whole lot of money. She has a baby to think about as of now. </p><p></p><p>I seriously doubt loser baby daddy is going to be around for the long run so she needs to get as much information about him as possible right now. Name, social, parents name and address if they seem somewhat stable, car tag if he drives, things like that. He is going to run at some point and she is going to end up a single mom. You have to make up your mind if you are going to stand by her. If you are going to stand by her, decide how much. Are you going to help with buying baby things or just helping with care. I think I would go with items in the beginning. See how she does at first. You can get them cheaply for her. </p><p></p><p>Nancy....if I can help, just ask. You know Ive been through this both myself and with Cory.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 461899, member: 1514"] Nancy...I wish she would talk to me. Do you think she would. Do you think if I emailed you something she would read it? I would be glad to do it. Im going to take another tack on this. Maybe this child wont be the worst thing in her life. I do wish she would lose the baby daddy though. He isnt just a loser but a hard core drug addict so I dont see anything good coming from this. You know that having my kids was the best thing that happened to me. They caused me to grow up. It is possible that having her own baby will do that for her. It may be that one thing that for her has been missing that you couldnt give her. If she has to work to support this new life and herself, it might keep her to busy to be able to party. Kids take a whole lot of time. They take a whole lot of money. She has a baby to think about as of now. I seriously doubt loser baby daddy is going to be around for the long run so she needs to get as much information about him as possible right now. Name, social, parents name and address if they seem somewhat stable, car tag if he drives, things like that. He is going to run at some point and she is going to end up a single mom. You have to make up your mind if you are going to stand by her. If you are going to stand by her, decide how much. Are you going to help with buying baby things or just helping with care. I think I would go with items in the beginning. See how she does at first. You can get them cheaply for her. Nancy....if I can help, just ask. You know Ive been through this both myself and with Cory. [/QUOTE]
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