This morning tk decided she was wearing tap shoes to school. And one of them is broken and covered with green tape. I said no and she went looking for her silver sparkly shoes and she couldn't find them and preceded to yell at the top of her lungs at boyo to find her shoes. She was told over and over again to stop screaming at her brother and find some shoes. Finally I just told her to put some shoes on and leave for school, she proceeded to yell I told her to get out of the house and go to school. And then she decided to cry. Sigh We talked last night for 20 minutes about the fact she is mean all the time to others. Mean to her one friend who leaves every time she gets yelled at. Mean to boyo, mean to hubs. About the only person she isn't mean to is me. We are getting ready to go across town for surgery and now I'm worried about my kid. And if one more person tells me it's normal for an 8 year old to scream yell and smart off to god and country for no **** reason at all I will scream. I'm not concerned with it being normal or not. I'm just worried about my kid and feeling like I screwed it up again.