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Should H come with or not?
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<blockquote data-quote="gcvmom" data-source="post: 317311" data-attributes="member: 3444"><p>You should keep going if you are still getting help from the sessions. He needs to decide for himself if he should keep going or not. You can't control his choices. Maybe this therapist is not the best fit for him -- sounds like the therapist is not really directing the sessions well enough for husband to benefit from it since he's saying he thinks he's done.</p><p> </p><p>The best you can do is establish your boundaries in your relationship and lay out clearly your expectations for husband. The rest is up to him to do and you to decide what you'll do if he chooses not to honor what you've asked for.</p><p> </p><p>I think it's hard for most men to do therapy work. It requires a lot of introspection which, sadly, many guys are not comfortable doing because they've never had to do it before.</p><p> </p><p>Take care of yourself. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gcvmom, post: 317311, member: 3444"] You should keep going if you are still getting help from the sessions. He needs to decide for himself if he should keep going or not. You can't control his choices. Maybe this therapist is not the best fit for him -- sounds like the therapist is not really directing the sessions well enough for husband to benefit from it since he's saying he thinks he's done. The best you can do is establish your boundaries in your relationship and lay out clearly your expectations for husband. The rest is up to him to do and you to decide what you'll do if he chooses not to honor what you've asked for. I think it's hard for most men to do therapy work. It requires a lot of introspection which, sadly, many guys are not comfortable doing because they've never had to do it before. Take care of yourself. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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