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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 317314" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I'm not married so feel free to completely ignore this, but I think it's a good sign that he has gone and made at least some effort and obviously cares about the marriage. But it sounds like he doesn't click with this therapist even though you do and he's not getting anything out of it. My suggestion would be to talk to your husband and consider changing tdocs- maybe to a male. Maybe you could keep this therapist as an individual on for yourself but if the marital problems have more to do with husband needing to better things to do to get over depression or work frustrations, etc., these sound like male issues that even though a female therapist might understand, a male therapist might be more effective with. (Just like we might get more out of having a female therapist if our issues are women's issues and maybe we wouldn't get as much out of a male marriage counselor.)</p><p></p><p>I get the point that people don't have to like the therapist, but your whole goal is for husband to get something out of this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 317314, member: 3699"] I'm not married so feel free to completely ignore this, but I think it's a good sign that he has gone and made at least some effort and obviously cares about the marriage. But it sounds like he doesn't click with this therapist even though you do and he's not getting anything out of it. My suggestion would be to talk to your husband and consider changing tdocs- maybe to a male. Maybe you could keep this therapist as an individual on for yourself but if the marital problems have more to do with husband needing to better things to do to get over depression or work frustrations, etc., these sound like male issues that even though a female therapist might understand, a male therapist might be more effective with. (Just like we might get more out of having a female therapist if our issues are women's issues and maybe we wouldn't get as much out of a male marriage counselor.) I get the point that people don't have to like the therapist, but your whole goal is for husband to get something out of this. [/QUOTE]
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