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Should I Hospitalize My Son?
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiapet" data-source="post: 357966" data-attributes="member: 455"><p>You are very welcome! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Your new boyfriend sounds like a keeper. After my divorce from ex I landed a peach of a boyfriend! He and I were friends for about 2 years prior to my divorce so he knew about my difficult children. I warned him on top of it in so many ways to try to scare him good to be sure HE was sure he wanted to get into this relationship when the time came. He still wanted in. Although he hadn't lived it and the difficult children were not quite as bad as they are now, 6 years later he is still with me, putting up with the verbal abuse, physical abuse, etc. that they now dish out to HIM as well. Yes, it's trying on him and he is frustrated as all get out and he will say you told me it was bad and I knew this but never thought it would be get this bad. He loves me and because of that, he continues to deal with it. If your new boyfriend is like this, he too will continue and since you say he has a BiPolar (BP) son, then he also has a background history that has prepared him. Sounds good to me.</p><p></p><p>Fear can be a motivator or a paralyzer I've found. When you look at the overall picture (and you have to), you have to see the end results of doing nothing. I think you are beginning to see this. Great! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I'm so glad I could help you, that is what I and so many of us are here for. What this place is for!</p><p></p><p>Just keep coming back everytime you need that boost to help you over the wall. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiapet, post: 357966, member: 455"] You are very welcome! :) Your new boyfriend sounds like a keeper. After my divorce from ex I landed a peach of a boyfriend! He and I were friends for about 2 years prior to my divorce so he knew about my difficult children. I warned him on top of it in so many ways to try to scare him good to be sure HE was sure he wanted to get into this relationship when the time came. He still wanted in. Although he hadn't lived it and the difficult children were not quite as bad as they are now, 6 years later he is still with me, putting up with the verbal abuse, physical abuse, etc. that they now dish out to HIM as well. Yes, it's trying on him and he is frustrated as all get out and he will say you told me it was bad and I knew this but never thought it would be get this bad. He loves me and because of that, he continues to deal with it. If your new boyfriend is like this, he too will continue and since you say he has a BiPolar (BP) son, then he also has a background history that has prepared him. Sounds good to me. Fear can be a motivator or a paralyzer I've found. When you look at the overall picture (and you have to), you have to see the end results of doing nothing. I think you are beginning to see this. Great! :) I'm so glad I could help you, that is what I and so many of us are here for. What this place is for! Just keep coming back everytime you need that boost to help you over the wall. :) [/QUOTE]
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