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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 71065" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>CAmom, I expect you know how I'll respond to your question. :smile:</p><p></p><p>I disagree.</p><p></p><p>I'd be on him like a rug.</p><p></p><p>He agreed to work with his dad and go to school. He needs to live up to those agreements.</p><p></p><p>He <em>is</em> using you...and he will continue to use you as long as you and husband allow it.</p><p></p><p>I can buy off on giving him a "vacation" but for a whole quarter? No way. He will lose momentum and that gives him too much time to fool around and get in trouble again.</p><p></p><p>Not to mention that it gives him plenty of time to resume his old way of running your home instead of you and husband running it.</p><p></p><p>Nope. </p><p></p><p>If he wants to continue to live with you he needs to start at least one NOW. That was the deal! He can put off school until January if he wants but he needs to get off his backside and start going to work NOW. </p><p></p><p>If he doesn't want to honor his agreement, that's fine...he moves out tomorrow.</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 71065, member: 29"] CAmom, I expect you know how I'll respond to your question. [img]:smile:[/img] I disagree. I'd be on him like a rug. He agreed to work with his dad and go to school. He needs to live up to those agreements. He [i]is[/i] using you...and he will continue to use you as long as you and husband allow it. I can buy off on giving him a "vacation" but for a whole quarter? No way. He will lose momentum and that gives him too much time to fool around and get in trouble again. Not to mention that it gives him plenty of time to resume his old way of running your home instead of you and husband running it. Nope. If he wants to continue to live with you he needs to start at least one NOW. That was the deal! He can put off school until January if he wants but he needs to get off his backside and start going to work NOW. If he doesn't want to honor his agreement, that's fine...he moves out tomorrow. Suz [/QUOTE]
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