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<blockquote data-quote="Leah1233" data-source="post: 621291" data-attributes="member: 17678"><p>I really appreciate your response childofmine, I have been looking over it whenever I am feeling unsure.</p><p>As much as I want to make her better, I can't. We have tried and it is so tiring. I cant do it again. I feel like I have failed her in a way. giving up. I keep telling myself that She is an adult though, she should be making her own choices and fixing her mistakes.</p><p>Its all very conflicting.</p><p></p><p>Things are been a lot better lately the children are beginning to adjust living with us and are happy and healthy. They are good company.</p><p></p><p>I am a little annoyed at my mothers GP who pretty much told my mother that she was doing everything wrong and should be allowing my sister to come back home or at the very least that we should look after her unborn child. After all this my poor mother was pretty upset, she really cares about my sister and wants nothing more for her to be free of addiction. My mother cannot care for another child. I cannot care for another child. I want to look after the two children she already has but I cant look after another. She feels very torn in this situation and I'm so annoyed at her GP for lecturing her on a situation he knows hardly anything about. Or am I wrong to think that this was unprofessional of her GP?</p><p></p><p>He said he is going to send her to a professional so he can help her make a decision. Which i do think that it would be good for my mother to talk about things but i do not like the reason why he is sending her there.</p><p></p><p>I am just so annoyed because it is not easy making a decision like this of course we care about her and love her but after a while there is nothing more you can do. Sometimes helping just enables. His lecture has just resurfaced a lot of conflicting thoughts.</p><p></p><p>It is not like we havent tired to help her. We have been trying to help her for 9 years and we just go around in circles. My sister sees how much mum cares about her and she takes advantage of this.</p><p></p><p>it is really annoying because my mother has more herself lately, but since this GP visit he has upset her. After a couple of hours she will be okay but If she has to go to him again I think next time I will go with her as support.</p><p></p><p>Sorry for the rant, I just needed to write it down.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Leah1233, post: 621291, member: 17678"] I really appreciate your response childofmine, I have been looking over it whenever I am feeling unsure. As much as I want to make her better, I can't. We have tried and it is so tiring. I cant do it again. I feel like I have failed her in a way. giving up. I keep telling myself that She is an adult though, she should be making her own choices and fixing her mistakes. Its all very conflicting. Things are been a lot better lately the children are beginning to adjust living with us and are happy and healthy. They are good company. I am a little annoyed at my mothers GP who pretty much told my mother that she was doing everything wrong and should be allowing my sister to come back home or at the very least that we should look after her unborn child. After all this my poor mother was pretty upset, she really cares about my sister and wants nothing more for her to be free of addiction. My mother cannot care for another child. I cannot care for another child. I want to look after the two children she already has but I cant look after another. She feels very torn in this situation and I'm so annoyed at her GP for lecturing her on a situation he knows hardly anything about. Or am I wrong to think that this was unprofessional of her GP? He said he is going to send her to a professional so he can help her make a decision. Which i do think that it would be good for my mother to talk about things but i do not like the reason why he is sending her there. I am just so annoyed because it is not easy making a decision like this of course we care about her and love her but after a while there is nothing more you can do. Sometimes helping just enables. His lecture has just resurfaced a lot of conflicting thoughts. It is not like we havent tired to help her. We have been trying to help her for 9 years and we just go around in circles. My sister sees how much mum cares about her and she takes advantage of this. it is really annoying because my mother has more herself lately, but since this GP visit he has upset her. After a couple of hours she will be okay but If she has to go to him again I think next time I will go with her as support. Sorry for the rant, I just needed to write it down. [/QUOTE]
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