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Should we let her come home for a short while?
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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 32846" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #333399"> <em>.....and if she's gone more than 24hrs who gets stuck taking care of HER dog???</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>i'm sorry, i know you want to help her but it's making me kind of queezy thinking about it. her history with-rule & respect is not good.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>you need to define things in terms of time. just how long can she stay in your house. you & husband have to define for yourselves & then to her exactly what disrespect means in your home, will there be a curfew & how much wiggle room does she get with-each rule. i would make the list very specific.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>then the big one....if she breaks the rules can you stand up & make her leave even if she doesn't have another place to go to? are you VERY, VERY sure she's going to stay broken up with-him or will she come home & be back with-him in two days or a week. how will you ensure she will be out looking for an apaprtment every single day until she finds one? can she support an apartment?</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>sorry to sound so negative here, but you have to protect yourself.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>kris </em> </span> </span> </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 32846, member: 74"] <span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #333399"> [i].....and if she's gone more than 24hrs who gets stuck taking care of HER dog??? i'm sorry, i know you want to help her but it's making me kind of queezy thinking about it. her history with-rule & respect is not good. you need to define things in terms of time. just how long can she stay in your house. you & husband have to define for yourselves & then to her exactly what disrespect means in your home, will there be a curfew & how much wiggle room does she get with-each rule. i would make the list very specific. then the big one....if she breaks the rules can you stand up & make her leave even if she doesn't have another place to go to? are you VERY, VERY sure she's going to stay broken up with-him or will she come home & be back with-him in two days or a week. how will you ensure she will be out looking for an apaprtment every single day until she finds one? can she support an apartment? sorry to sound so negative here, but you have to protect yourself. kris [/i] </span> </span> </span> [/QUOTE]
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