WMM....I understand where you're coming from but hope that at least at some point, you would change your mind. I think all of us here, no matter our financial status, appearance or "social" status......don't really care about any of that and are just happy we have found others in the same boat who we can relate to and get along with. As for the annonymity...some of us here are more open and free with things such as our real names, where we live, etc. and some aren't. Neither side is a bad side, it's just what you are comfortable with. But whatever level of that you want, we all respect that and will abide by it.
Personally, I would love to meet as many people from here as possible because as good of friends as I have, you guys GET IT. I can vent, whine, moan and make jokes that others might think are wrong and you guys GET IT. Sometimes I do feel guilty because I'll read posts by others and be thankful that I don't have it that bad but that also helps me too. If that person can deal with THEIR situation, then surely I can handle mine. You know?
Anyhoo...what I'm trying to say is that I (we) understand. But at the same time, I hope you would consider going to a gathering at some point in the future. 'K?