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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 445240" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Janet, katie worked all of ONE day. Just enough to show a pay stub to HUD to get the apartment.</p><p></p><p>Well. Maybe I wasn't in such a good place tonight. Maybe I just made the biggest mistake of my life.</p><p></p><p>I just called her on the lies. Told her exactly how I felt about her situation. Told her if she wants help from us she 1. has to be totally honest with us and come clean and 2. show us she's working to help herself.</p><p></p><p>Told her exactly my opinion of M and to stop singing his praises to me because I've already got his number and I don't like what I see.</p><p></p><p>Told her that it is awful that her 11 yr old daughter can see the truth of the situation yet she continues to make excuses and make up lies so it's always someone elses fault. </p><p></p><p>Told her that there is obviously a problem, that until she admits there is a problem and is willing to face it and deal with it, no one can help her and she is going to keep on spinning her wheels and getting nowhere.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry but that was just one pity party and one I'm such a Loser too many. I did and said exactly what I would have done and said had it been easy child or Nichole. Both girls interrupted me while I was doing it, so they know what's going down. They don't know exactly what was said, but they have the jest of it. </p><p></p><p>I did make an attempt to curb my anger and my total fed up ness about the whole deal.</p><p></p><p>I figure if she wants to change and is just so stuck in her groove she can't see the light of day, maybe it will be her wake up call. If this is just who she is then she'll see we're not going to play into her hands and make her next move.</p><p></p><p>I guess the time was right to do so. The computer didn't crash, fb didn't lock up, or any of the half dozen other weird things that happened every time I attempted before to do this.</p><p></p><p>At the very least, maybe I won't have to listen to her load of bullsh*t every time she mails me</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 445240, member: 84"] Janet, katie worked all of ONE day. Just enough to show a pay stub to HUD to get the apartment. Well. Maybe I wasn't in such a good place tonight. Maybe I just made the biggest mistake of my life. I just called her on the lies. Told her exactly how I felt about her situation. Told her if she wants help from us she 1. has to be totally honest with us and come clean and 2. show us she's working to help herself. Told her exactly my opinion of M and to stop singing his praises to me because I've already got his number and I don't like what I see. Told her that it is awful that her 11 yr old daughter can see the truth of the situation yet she continues to make excuses and make up lies so it's always someone elses fault. Told her that there is obviously a problem, that until she admits there is a problem and is willing to face it and deal with it, no one can help her and she is going to keep on spinning her wheels and getting nowhere. I'm sorry but that was just one pity party and one I'm such a Loser too many. I did and said exactly what I would have done and said had it been easy child or Nichole. Both girls interrupted me while I was doing it, so they know what's going down. They don't know exactly what was said, but they have the jest of it. I did make an attempt to curb my anger and my total fed up ness about the whole deal. I figure if she wants to change and is just so stuck in her groove she can't see the light of day, maybe it will be her wake up call. If this is just who she is then she'll see we're not going to play into her hands and make her next move. I guess the time was right to do so. The computer didn't crash, fb didn't lock up, or any of the half dozen other weird things that happened every time I attempted before to do this. At the very least, maybe I won't have to listen to her load of bullsh*t every time she mails me [/QUOTE]
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