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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 422040" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>My problem seems to be the other way round, though - I am fearful there is some serious "problem" in a way those in the "outside world" (school, childminders, psychologists) aren't... This morning I talked briefly to J's teacher. She said she is very opposed to making out that there is some serious problem with him because in her view there isn't: she said in her school career she has seen worse children, that he is physically hyperactive and aggressive in his play like some of the other boys, that she has to scold him more than some other children but that he respects authority, has made great progress, is sociable and (her words) "adorable and affectionate". In her view he is a normal but very active little boy... I tried to explain that I just want an evaluation, something to go on, but she seems to feel I am reading too much, worrying too much... I fear that I am not going to be able to see this neuro-psychologist because he is not pressing enough a case.</p><p>I don't know whether I am alarming myself coming here to the website... Yet J's tantrums, inflexibility, difficulty with change do seem to point to something... I guess I do have to just wait and see how things evolve for him. A friend is going to give me the number of a play therapist she knows... this at least could be helpful right now. </p><p>Thanks for all your input <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 422040, member: 11227"] My problem seems to be the other way round, though - I am fearful there is some serious "problem" in a way those in the "outside world" (school, childminders, psychologists) aren't... This morning I talked briefly to J's teacher. She said she is very opposed to making out that there is some serious problem with him because in her view there isn't: she said in her school career she has seen worse children, that he is physically hyperactive and aggressive in his play like some of the other boys, that she has to scold him more than some other children but that he respects authority, has made great progress, is sociable and (her words) "adorable and affectionate". In her view he is a normal but very active little boy... I tried to explain that I just want an evaluation, something to go on, but she seems to feel I am reading too much, worrying too much... I fear that I am not going to be able to see this neuro-psychologist because he is not pressing enough a case. I don't know whether I am alarming myself coming here to the website... Yet J's tantrums, inflexibility, difficulty with change do seem to point to something... I guess I do have to just wait and see how things evolve for him. A friend is going to give me the number of a play therapist she knows... this at least could be helpful right now. Thanks for all your input :-) [/QUOTE]
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