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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 422686" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Thanks Marg - some very useful tips, there. For the joke, yes I had got that far but it hadn't raised the smile in me - doubtless the fault of the jokee rather than the joker! </p><p>For the tantrum - yes, it was of course that J wanted to go a way that was in the opposite direction to where we needed to go! I give him choices wherever we can - you do learn that basic strategy fairly early on <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p>This morning, I did the "test" with him with the dolls and the hidden object taken from its usual place with improvised toys of course, where you see whether the child has understood the perspective of another person and J got the right answer like a shot... for whatever it's worth, which may not be a whole lot. </p><p>And, yes, of course I do realise that the behaviour we show is the one that the child will model, largely speaking and over the long term... therein lies the challenge!! Because dealing with these children just isn't easy, which really is one of those things that gets filed in the Needless to Say folder...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 422686, member: 11227"] Thanks Marg - some very useful tips, there. For the joke, yes I had got that far but it hadn't raised the smile in me - doubtless the fault of the jokee rather than the joker! For the tantrum - yes, it was of course that J wanted to go a way that was in the opposite direction to where we needed to go! I give him choices wherever we can - you do learn that basic strategy fairly early on :-) This morning, I did the "test" with him with the dolls and the hidden object taken from its usual place with improvised toys of course, where you see whether the child has understood the perspective of another person and J got the right answer like a shot... for whatever it's worth, which may not be a whole lot. And, yes, of course I do realise that the behaviour we show is the one that the child will model, largely speaking and over the long term... therein lies the challenge!! Because dealing with these children just isn't easy, which really is one of those things that gets filed in the Needless to Say folder... [/QUOTE]
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