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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 422700" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Is J kind, HaoZi? Does she feel empathy or sorrow at those in distress, those who are suffering or in trouble? Does she like to help? I feel that identifying and praising that skill and quality is a big source of self-esteem for children. </p><p>And as for how you can help, I guess, to state the obvious of which I am sure you are already aware, you do it by remarking on all her good qualities and praising them all the time. Though actually, although it sounds obvious, I think this often doesn't happen and leads to children and then adults not actually "seeing" themselves accurately, which can have an incredibly detrimental effect on them and the choices they make...</p><p>Write down all J's qualities and read her out the list! It will make her smile...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 422700, member: 11227"] Is J kind, HaoZi? Does she feel empathy or sorrow at those in distress, those who are suffering or in trouble? Does she like to help? I feel that identifying and praising that skill and quality is a big source of self-esteem for children. And as for how you can help, I guess, to state the obvious of which I am sure you are already aware, you do it by remarking on all her good qualities and praising them all the time. Though actually, although it sounds obvious, I think this often doesn't happen and leads to children and then adults not actually "seeing" themselves accurately, which can have an incredibly detrimental effect on them and the choices they make... Write down all J's qualities and read her out the list! It will make her smile... [/QUOTE]
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