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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 102102" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Both of my difficult child's are like this. </p><p></p><p>My difficult child son spends his money faster than he can make it always has and it is always on things he doesn't need then he complains that he won't have the money for his rent and restitution. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Then there is my difficult child daughter. After her beautiful mansion wedding, not only did she not thank her father and I she complained that the 21K budget we gave her was not enough and that her husband's parents had to pay for their photos. In addition many people from our side traveled long distances to attend. They stayed in hotels and gave her expensive gifts. She never even sent out thank you cards. Not even when I offered to help her address them and even bought the stamps. Yet she still expects these people to open their homes to her when she feels like visiting NY to go clubbing etc. UG! </p><p></p><p>I have so many examples it is sad.</p><p></p><p>My daughter actually called me a week before her birthday and asked if I was going to have a party for her yet hadn't even given me a card for mine. </p><p></p><p>At Christmas two years ago I gave her a $500 framed art print that she wanted for her new home... I got a $12 dollar frame with a scanned picture inside in return. Why? she ran out of money because she gave her husbands family thousands of dollars worth of gifts. </p><p></p><p>On her thirtieth birthday she was having a party and the children of my dear friend who lives 200 miles away were flying in for it. My daughter told me in no uncertain terms that I was not welcome to even come over and say hello. She said that it was young people only. (But her in laws were allowed to stop in). My daughter promised that they would come on sunday to say hi but they never did. She never even asked the friends if they would like to. They had no car and were at her mercy and she was tired so she slept in.</p><p> </p><p>When she didn't invite me to her birthday I went out and bought the duplicate of the $12 frame she gave me for Christmas three months prior. I then scanned a couple of her photos from her growing up years and made a collage. Alhough I did it out of spite, it came out really cute and she actually liked it LOL. The point was entirely lost on her. Typical of a narcissist. </p><p></p><p>For my birthday this year she didn't even give me a card, though she did come here for dinner with her husband. Her excuse? She said she was going to take me out to dinner at a nice resturant. Of course that never happened. She and her husband went on a European vacation for 3 weeks shortly therafter. When they got back they conviently forgot. In addition they whinned that didn't have the money for all kinds of things when they got back. </p><p></p><p>Needless to say I never mentioned the dinner. I already knew it would never happen the day they promised it. </p><p></p><p>This is who she is. to top it all off, according to her, it is all MY fault she is like this. </p><p></p><p>Mine were not raised like this and they definately are no reflection of me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 102102, member: 2315"] Both of my difficult child's are like this. My difficult child son spends his money faster than he can make it always has and it is always on things he doesn't need then he complains that he won't have the money for his rent and restitution. Then there is my difficult child daughter. After her beautiful mansion wedding, not only did she not thank her father and I she complained that the 21K budget we gave her was not enough and that her husband's parents had to pay for their photos. In addition many people from our side traveled long distances to attend. They stayed in hotels and gave her expensive gifts. She never even sent out thank you cards. Not even when I offered to help her address them and even bought the stamps. Yet she still expects these people to open their homes to her when she feels like visiting NY to go clubbing etc. UG! I have so many examples it is sad. My daughter actually called me a week before her birthday and asked if I was going to have a party for her yet hadn't even given me a card for mine. At Christmas two years ago I gave her a $500 framed art print that she wanted for her new home... I got a $12 dollar frame with a scanned picture inside in return. Why? she ran out of money because she gave her husbands family thousands of dollars worth of gifts. On her thirtieth birthday she was having a party and the children of my dear friend who lives 200 miles away were flying in for it. My daughter told me in no uncertain terms that I was not welcome to even come over and say hello. She said that it was young people only. (But her in laws were allowed to stop in). My daughter promised that they would come on sunday to say hi but they never did. She never even asked the friends if they would like to. They had no car and were at her mercy and she was tired so she slept in. When she didn't invite me to her birthday I went out and bought the duplicate of the $12 frame she gave me for Christmas three months prior. I then scanned a couple of her photos from her growing up years and made a collage. Alhough I did it out of spite, it came out really cute and she actually liked it LOL. The point was entirely lost on her. Typical of a narcissist. For my birthday this year she didn't even give me a card, though she did come here for dinner with her husband. Her excuse? She said she was going to take me out to dinner at a nice resturant. Of course that never happened. She and her husband went on a European vacation for 3 weeks shortly therafter. When they got back they conviently forgot. In addition they whinned that didn't have the money for all kinds of things when they got back. Needless to say I never mentioned the dinner. I already knew it would never happen the day they promised it. This is who she is. to top it all off, according to her, it is all MY fault she is like this. Mine were not raised like this and they definately are no reflection of me. [/QUOTE]
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