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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 618893" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Aud, I am so sorry. Why do they have to be so mean? And why do we believe them when they are like this, when we know that all they do is lie about everything else. Why would we believe this?</p><p></p><p>Don't believe him. He is reacting. He is stirring the pot. He is doing what difficult children do. </p><p></p><p>You know the mom you have been. You don't need anybody else to tell you how good a mom you have been or haven't been. You know that in your heart. We love our kids so much. We are not perfect moms, but we do the very best we can with what we have, and usually, we put them #1 on the list above ourselves and all else. We wouldn't have them hurt for ANYTHING. We would rather ourselves be hurt than them. </p><p></p><p>That's part of the problem. That we keep doing that when they are grown adults.</p><p></p><p>Aud, please sit back now. Please stop struggling for a while. Rest. Be kind to yourself. Be with people you love and who love you. Take walk, read a book, take a nap, take a bubble bath, sit and watch some funny mindless TV. Just be with yourself on the couch with a pillow and blanket. </p><p></p><p>It's time to stop for a while and just be. You are depleted and who wouldn't be? This too shall pass. let it pass. Be silent and rest. </p><p></p><p>We are here for you and I am saying prayers for you and for your family, all of them, right now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 618893, member: 17542"] Aud, I am so sorry. Why do they have to be so mean? And why do we believe them when they are like this, when we know that all they do is lie about everything else. Why would we believe this? Don't believe him. He is reacting. He is stirring the pot. He is doing what difficult children do. You know the mom you have been. You don't need anybody else to tell you how good a mom you have been or haven't been. You know that in your heart. We love our kids so much. We are not perfect moms, but we do the very best we can with what we have, and usually, we put them #1 on the list above ourselves and all else. We wouldn't have them hurt for ANYTHING. We would rather ourselves be hurt than them. That's part of the problem. That we keep doing that when they are grown adults. Aud, please sit back now. Please stop struggling for a while. Rest. Be kind to yourself. Be with people you love and who love you. Take walk, read a book, take a nap, take a bubble bath, sit and watch some funny mindless TV. Just be with yourself on the couch with a pillow and blanket. It's time to stop for a while and just be. You are depleted and who wouldn't be? This too shall pass. let it pass. Be silent and rest. We are here for you and I am saying prayers for you and for your family, all of them, right now. [/QUOTE]
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