Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Since husband died....
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 357465" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>I don't know Linda - this is a hard one. I am usually all for up front honestly but.....Let me ask you, how many times a month did they all YOU before husband passed (not husband, but YOU)? How often did you see them? What was their relationship with the tweedles? Did they ever go visit wm before husband passed? Did they ever call the house just to speak with their granddaughter? What did you do at Christmas - did you all exchange cards? Did they send cash or a gift for the kids - a phone call? I ask this because I am trying to just see what kind of relationship you had before husband passed and since then.</p><p></p><p>But, I must say, more so than up front honesty, I put a lot of stock in what my heart dictates. If you care about mother in law and your heart dictates that you acknowledge her on Mother's Day, send her a card with a nice little note inside. I must say, your sending her a card is not going to remind her any more of her loss than she already feels - truly.</p><p></p><p>Sharon</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 357465, member: 805"] I don't know Linda - this is a hard one. I am usually all for up front honestly but.....Let me ask you, how many times a month did they all YOU before husband passed (not husband, but YOU)? How often did you see them? What was their relationship with the tweedles? Did they ever go visit wm before husband passed? Did they ever call the house just to speak with their granddaughter? What did you do at Christmas - did you all exchange cards? Did they send cash or a gift for the kids - a phone call? I ask this because I am trying to just see what kind of relationship you had before husband passed and since then. But, I must say, more so than up front honesty, I put a lot of stock in what my heart dictates. If you care about mother in law and your heart dictates that you acknowledge her on Mother's Day, send her a card with a nice little note inside. I must say, your sending her a card is not going to remind her any more of her loss than she already feels - truly. Sharon [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
General Discussions
The Watercooler
Since husband died....
Top