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<blockquote data-quote="okmeme" data-source="post: 514291" data-attributes="member: 616"><p>My first husband died unexpectedly at the age of 42. I still had two teenagers at home so I had that purpose still, but i still had to reinvent myself personally. All of the dreams and goals and want-tos must change. Every one told me to give it at least a year...I found out they were right as much as I wanted to make it all better immediately. As someone said, the pain never completely passes, but a day will come around when you find that you have a new purpose, a new dream, a new goal. It takes time, patience, and just keep on doing what you are doing putting one foot in front of the other and it will happen. Your grief is an immense thing to deal with and the idea of support groups (if you are inclined that way) can be wonderful. I did better on my own, but everyone has to find their own way. I think you are doing a great job...it may just be a while before you can see that. Good luck to you and your family. Thanks for being such a support for so many on this forum.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="okmeme, post: 514291, member: 616"] My first husband died unexpectedly at the age of 42. I still had two teenagers at home so I had that purpose still, but i still had to reinvent myself personally. All of the dreams and goals and want-tos must change. Every one told me to give it at least a year...I found out they were right as much as I wanted to make it all better immediately. As someone said, the pain never completely passes, but a day will come around when you find that you have a new purpose, a new dream, a new goal. It takes time, patience, and just keep on doing what you are doing putting one foot in front of the other and it will happen. Your grief is an immense thing to deal with and the idea of support groups (if you are inclined that way) can be wonderful. I did better on my own, but everyone has to find their own way. I think you are doing a great job...it may just be a while before you can see that. Good luck to you and your family. Thanks for being such a support for so many on this forum. [/QUOTE]
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