I have a plan.
BUT........
........I'm not sharing it!
Failure is ugly but public failure is even uglier. You guys will be the first to know if I can get a handle on the cigarette problem. on the other hand, you needn't worry about the drinking. I finished off my Cutty bottle and don't plan to buy a replacement for a few weeks.
by the way, so you all will know how "calm" my life is daily, Since the meeting yesterday I am on track for a new program I just heard about where difficult child would spend two weeks in a training program run by a major hotel chain teaching disabled how to work in hotels/restaurants. The laundry is stacked up high. And....GFGmom has a cyst "the size of a small grapefruit" that will require a hysterectomy asap. difficult child will be taking care of her house and his little sister who is a MAJOR difficult child as his "Mom" won't be able to do anything for six to eight weeks. Sigh!
Sigh! What a life! DDD