so, winds up i have walking pnuemonnia. if i'm spelling that right. lol It seems to be my "thing". I've had it 7 times before. When I get stressed and run down it seems to happen. I knew something was up, i have absolutely no energy. I laid on couch last night for 3 hours not moving much watching t.v. which i never do. So, it's medications for me. difficult child is leaving late tmrw afternoon for dad's house (she usually leaves in the a.m.) yet boyfriend's easy child has a play tmrw afternoon we are going to. difficult child loves to watch her plays. So, it's a mess here, laundry is piling up i just took hot bath and i figure i'll leave it like this and save energy for when difficult child gets home. But i'm still going tomorrow, she got a main part so i really can't miss it.