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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 121764" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>I think you should arrange to sell the ponies that you're not using, yet are supporting for no good reason. When H balks at your plan, tell him tough noogies and go ahead with it. Since he's not pulling his weight and there is no use for these two animals, surely you could use the money from their sale for more practical purposes, such as repairing his truck so he's not using yours or reparing the dishwasher to make your life a bit easier.</p><p> </p><p>You also need to go on strike with things that H can easily handle but still keep up with things so at least you and difficult child can keep living and moving along. Even if the house begins to resemble a dump, hang in there. H will get the point.</p><p> </p><p>Seriously your H is not behaving as would a "best friend". He sounds like he's also overwhelmed and is just incapable to plugging through as you are. I hate to tell people things like this, but sometimes if a strike doesn't work, a separation does. Just a thought. If you're going to be doing all the work anyway, why have him making more of a mess or getting in your way while you're doing it?? </p><p> </p><p>I sure hope that H comes to his senses and sees fit to help with his half of the chores. Whenever I bust my H's behind about helping out, he always drags difficult child into it, as if she is going to go out back, split wood and build a fire in the woodburning stove! Yeah, when pigs fly. I'm sorry that he's being such a lazy poop and I hope that you're able to find something to shake him up a bit. I'm not a good place and probably shouldn't even post to anyone today, but I am thinking of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 121764, member: 2211"] I think you should arrange to sell the ponies that you're not using, yet are supporting for no good reason. When H balks at your plan, tell him tough noogies and go ahead with it. Since he's not pulling his weight and there is no use for these two animals, surely you could use the money from their sale for more practical purposes, such as repairing his truck so he's not using yours or reparing the dishwasher to make your life a bit easier. You also need to go on strike with things that H can easily handle but still keep up with things so at least you and difficult child can keep living and moving along. Even if the house begins to resemble a dump, hang in there. H will get the point. Seriously your H is not behaving as would a "best friend". He sounds like he's also overwhelmed and is just incapable to plugging through as you are. I hate to tell people things like this, but sometimes if a strike doesn't work, a separation does. Just a thought. If you're going to be doing all the work anyway, why have him making more of a mess or getting in your way while you're doing it?? I sure hope that H comes to his senses and sees fit to help with his half of the chores. Whenever I bust my H's behind about helping out, he always drags difficult child into it, as if she is going to go out back, split wood and build a fire in the woodburning stove! Yeah, when pigs fly. I'm sorry that he's being such a lazy poop and I hope that you're able to find something to shake him up a bit. I'm not a good place and probably shouldn't even post to anyone today, but I am thinking of you. [/QUOTE]
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