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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 121769" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>You have much more patience than I. I would have sent him packing on his ponies a looooong time ago...</p><p></p><p>Maye write it all out. Some people (*cough*, guys) have selective hearing and seeing. If he pretends it isn't happening, then it isn't. Write out something similar to what you just did, more like a my list / your list thing, and let him see the differences. Then specifically let him know what yo need him to do.</p><p></p><p>Men are often guilty of doing less around the house.</p><p>Women are just as often guilty of being vague about what they want. Be specific. This way he can't say "well you never said..." because indeed you did.</p><p></p><p>List the pros and cons about the ponies. And do not let him veer the conversation to the difficult child who left home 6 months ago.</p><p></p><p>For goodness sake, he should be embarrassed that you are doing car repairs. I think it is awesome that you can, but shame on him.</p><p></p><p>Good luck to ya!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 121769, member: 3647"] You have much more patience than I. I would have sent him packing on his ponies a looooong time ago... Maye write it all out. Some people (*cough*, guys) have selective hearing and seeing. If he pretends it isn't happening, then it isn't. Write out something similar to what you just did, more like a my list / your list thing, and let him see the differences. Then specifically let him know what yo need him to do. Men are often guilty of doing less around the house. Women are just as often guilty of being vague about what they want. Be specific. This way he can't say "well you never said..." because indeed you did. List the pros and cons about the ponies. And do not let him veer the conversation to the difficult child who left home 6 months ago. For goodness sake, he should be embarrassed that you are doing car repairs. I think it is awesome that you can, but shame on him. Good luck to ya! [/QUOTE]
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