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So now driving has opened up a new set of difficult child adventures
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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 637568" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>Again like I said I had no intention of beating up on you, but I did perceive that there are still excuses to the "whys" of what you do allow. My post certainly wasn't meant to bring you personal harm. If it did I certainly apologize. NEVER would I join a support group to cause harm. I am not saying you get a kick out of the drama that invades your life - I am asking you a philosophical question: what are you getting out of these difficult children situations that keeps a hold on you? I think I was also saying by allowing" illegal practices" you are in fact giving permission to break the law (driving without the legal right to do so) to a difficult child who already believes that the rules of life don't apply to them. I am sorry if you are hurt, that was truly not my intention. Perhaps "gleeful" was a wrong choice of vocabulary and for that I apologize as well. I think the intention I was getting too was picked up and started in a new post "Do we get something out of enabling our own kids" </p><p></p><p>Once you agree to allow someone to break the law, if something goes horribly wrong, it is the person complacent in allowing , in this case allowing difficult child to drive when he has no legal right, without a licensed driver, to drive. When we give permission "just this once" well a difficult child will take the whole mile. Family members of difficult child live horrible experiences - with excuses for them - same s--t different day. My point was difficult children cause drama and uproar - and when we stay engaged or complacent, what are we getting out of it. Notice, not just you, but any of us dealing with difficult children.</p><p>I agree with you that you need more insight into the ways you are manipulated. I have a horrid difficult child and I did not catch on to both my role and her role for a very long time, therefore I understand that people make mistakes. I did for sure.</p><p></p><p>I hope that you can accept my apology and we can move on. Again I extend my sincerest apologies for any pain my post may have caused you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 637568, member: 18366"] Again like I said I had no intention of beating up on you, but I did perceive that there are still excuses to the "whys" of what you do allow. My post certainly wasn't meant to bring you personal harm. If it did I certainly apologize. NEVER would I join a support group to cause harm. I am not saying you get a kick out of the drama that invades your life - I am asking you a philosophical question: what are you getting out of these difficult children situations that keeps a hold on you? I think I was also saying by allowing" illegal practices" you are in fact giving permission to break the law (driving without the legal right to do so) to a difficult child who already believes that the rules of life don't apply to them. I am sorry if you are hurt, that was truly not my intention. Perhaps "gleeful" was a wrong choice of vocabulary and for that I apologize as well. I think the intention I was getting too was picked up and started in a new post "Do we get something out of enabling our own kids" Once you agree to allow someone to break the law, if something goes horribly wrong, it is the person complacent in allowing , in this case allowing difficult child to drive when he has no legal right, without a licensed driver, to drive. When we give permission "just this once" well a difficult child will take the whole mile. Family members of difficult child live horrible experiences - with excuses for them - same s--t different day. My point was difficult children cause drama and uproar - and when we stay engaged or complacent, what are we getting out of it. Notice, not just you, but any of us dealing with difficult children. I agree with you that you need more insight into the ways you are manipulated. I have a horrid difficult child and I did not catch on to both my role and her role for a very long time, therefore I understand that people make mistakes. I did for sure. I hope that you can accept my apology and we can move on. Again I extend my sincerest apologies for any pain my post may have caused you. [/QUOTE]
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