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So now the truth comes out ... ex-girlfriend is pregnant!
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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 650781" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Of course, my SO wanted his son, difficult child, to get a paternity test, but he never did. At first, he was still with her, so he was probably scared to bring it up. After they broke up, though, he was still strangely reluctant to get one. His dad offered to pay, but he hemmed and hawed around, even though he was sometimes doubting the paternity. The offer still stands.</p><p></p><p>difficult child's mom was very against getting a paternity test though.</p><p></p><p>She was so in love with the notion of being a grandma that she would not hear of any doubts as to paternity.</p><p></p><p>It's not like she was close to or particularly liked the girlfriend before the pregnancy, either.</p><p></p><p>She claimed ther was no need for a paternity test because difficult child was this girl's first and only boyfriend...not true by a long shot, and no one had ever even said this was the case (except for G f g mom).</p><p></p><p>She then claimed girlfriend was a 'good Catholic girl' and got pregnant because she was following the dictates of her Church. Again, not true. girlfriend actually was an atheist who never had gone to Church, Catholic or otherwise. The closest thing to Catholicism, nearest I can tell, is that her last name gets its origins from a overwhelmingly Catholic country. We had talked to difficult child many times about taking girlfriend to get birth control from planned parenthood (located about 2 blocks from her house, but they never managed to get there.) But she never objected on religious grounds, and anyway, they used condoms.</p><p></p><p>I have a question about birth certificates.</p><p></p><p>difficult child claims they put him as father on the birth certificate, and the baby does have his last name, but due to a 'clerical error' according to difficult child and girlfriend, the birth certificate has the father information blank. We have always wondered about this. They said they were going to get it fixed, but of course nothing ever happened.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Anyway,</p><p>I think that difficult child gets positive attention from his mom because of the baby, and doesn't want to mess it up. Since he doesn't pay any child support, there is no down side for him, I guess.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 650781, member: 16024"] Of course, my SO wanted his son, difficult child, to get a paternity test, but he never did. At first, he was still with her, so he was probably scared to bring it up. After they broke up, though, he was still strangely reluctant to get one. His dad offered to pay, but he hemmed and hawed around, even though he was sometimes doubting the paternity. The offer still stands. difficult child's mom was very against getting a paternity test though. She was so in love with the notion of being a grandma that she would not hear of any doubts as to paternity. It's not like she was close to or particularly liked the girlfriend before the pregnancy, either. She claimed ther was no need for a paternity test because difficult child was this girl's first and only boyfriend...not true by a long shot, and no one had ever even said this was the case (except for G f g mom). She then claimed girlfriend was a 'good Catholic girl' and got pregnant because she was following the dictates of her Church. Again, not true. girlfriend actually was an atheist who never had gone to Church, Catholic or otherwise. The closest thing to Catholicism, nearest I can tell, is that her last name gets its origins from a overwhelmingly Catholic country. We had talked to difficult child many times about taking girlfriend to get birth control from planned parenthood (located about 2 blocks from her house, but they never managed to get there.) But she never objected on religious grounds, and anyway, they used condoms. I have a question about birth certificates. difficult child claims they put him as father on the birth certificate, and the baby does have his last name, but due to a 'clerical error' according to difficult child and girlfriend, the birth certificate has the father information blank. We have always wondered about this. They said they were going to get it fixed, but of course nothing ever happened. Anyway, I think that difficult child gets positive attention from his mom because of the baby, and doesn't want to mess it up. Since he doesn't pay any child support, there is no down side for him, I guess. [/QUOTE]
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