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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 383105" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Linda, is there someone you can talk to about the impact that this would have on the kids? One of my biggest concerns is that the kids will feel like you are saying you are not their mother and you don't want them. Maybe you could talk to one of their tdocs, or to a therapist that has worked with them in the past. I just cannot see any way that this will not send that message to them, esp to kt because she lives with you. </p><p> </p><p>I know it all seems to make sense when they talk to you about it. That is a facet of the handicap you are working with. There are a LOT of people who are able to suggest things and have them sound totally rational and like a great idea right then. This is why any big decision should NOT be made right when it is suggested.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 383105, member: 1233"] Linda, is there someone you can talk to about the impact that this would have on the kids? One of my biggest concerns is that the kids will feel like you are saying you are not their mother and you don't want them. Maybe you could talk to one of their tdocs, or to a therapist that has worked with them in the past. I just cannot see any way that this will not send that message to them, esp to kt because she lives with you. I know it all seems to make sense when they talk to you about it. That is a facet of the handicap you are working with. There are a LOT of people who are able to suggest things and have them sound totally rational and like a great idea right then. This is why any big decision should NOT be made right when it is suggested. [/QUOTE]
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