I'm so sick of my boss telling me to be nicer to people. I am very nice. Other people tell me that I am very nice. What my boss means is he wants me to stop advocating for girls who are discriminated against by our state association. I have been fighting for the girls since the late 1980s. It is one of the reasons I got my job. Now he wants me to stop because someone wants me quiet so that there isn't a spotlight shown on their continued second-class citizenship for little girls. So, so tempted to just quit.