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<blockquote data-quote="Blighty" data-source="post: 715007" data-attributes="member: 21991">Hi MichelleYou looked on her computer and saw things there that you did not expect to see which have hurt you. I would have probably done the same if in your position, but some of that stuff is confidential&nbsp; and she may have made assertions because of the imbalance of her brain at the time or felt compelled to for some reason that you do not know, and later it would be hard for her to take it all back.You are seeing that information out of context; you weren't actually there to hear what was said. Please don't let it hurt you more or influence you with regard to your daughter. You can't un-see it, the cat is out the bag, but if it was a court trial, the judge would be asking the jury to disregard it for the purposes of the trial, so to speak.She has probably done enough to hurt you to your face without you needing this confidential information to influence you in your future treatment of her. I'm not defending her as such, but I felt concerned that information might have caused more harm then was ever 'intended' by her.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Blighty, post: 715007, member: 21991"] Hi Michelle You looked on her computer and saw things there that you did not expect to see which have hurt you. I would have probably done the same if in your position, but some of that stuff is confidential and she may have made assertions because of the imbalance of her brain at the time or felt compelled to for some reason that you do not know, and later it would be hard for her to take it all back. You are seeing that information out of context; you weren't actually there to hear what was said. Please don't let it hurt you more or influence you with regard to your daughter. You can't un-see it, the cat is out the bag, but if it was a court trial, the judge would be asking the jury to disregard it for the purposes of the trial, so to speak. She has probably done enough to hurt you to your face without you needing this confidential information to influence you in your future treatment of her. I'm not defending her as such, but I felt concerned that information might have caused more harm then was ever 'intended' by her. [/QUOTE]

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