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So why do we (or in this case I) miss abusive people? I don't get it.
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 627214" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I'm back. </p><p></p><p>Sorry to dominate your thread, MWM. Here is the thing I just realized. So, during the past months, when things that pushed me right to the edge were happening...the most unhelpful thing that could have happened would have been close contact with my so dysfunctional family of origin. The best thing that could have happened to me throughout all of this?</p><p></p><p>Is exactly what did happen.</p><p></p><p>I had all of you, every one of us trying with all our hearts to be healthier than we had been.</p><p></p><p>So, it is true, what they say. We need to hold trust that, whatever is happening, there is some purpose for it somewhere that we cannot see. Even with this business with our dysfunctional families popping up out of nowhere? There is a purpose we may not be able to see. But then, we don't need to see it. We only need to do the one, small thing in front of us. And we need to do that in the best way we know. </p><p></p><p>We need to hold the intent, even if we cannot yet hold the truth of, friendliness, openness, and acceptance of what is.</p><p></p><p>I can hold an intent.</p><p></p><p>I can do that.</p><p></p><p>Thanks to all who are reading along.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 627214, member: 17461"] I'm back. Sorry to dominate your thread, MWM. Here is the thing I just realized. So, during the past months, when things that pushed me right to the edge were happening...the most unhelpful thing that could have happened would have been close contact with my so dysfunctional family of origin. The best thing that could have happened to me throughout all of this? Is exactly what did happen. I had all of you, every one of us trying with all our hearts to be healthier than we had been. So, it is true, what they say. We need to hold trust that, whatever is happening, there is some purpose for it somewhere that we cannot see. Even with this business with our dysfunctional families popping up out of nowhere? There is a purpose we may not be able to see. But then, we don't need to see it. We only need to do the one, small thing in front of us. And we need to do that in the best way we know. We need to hold the intent, even if we cannot yet hold the truth of, friendliness, openness, and acceptance of what is. I can hold an intent. I can do that. Thanks to all who are reading along. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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So why do we (or in this case I) miss abusive people? I don't get it.
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