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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 352951" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>At this point, difficult child now knows that PO already knows he did the drugs and difficult child told me himself he did so it's just a question of whether or not the test will come back positive. That is probably a question in difficult child's mind because, as he admitted to mentor and me, he tried to flush his system and he's probably interested in finding out if it works or not. The discussion between PO and me about what to do about it is covered in my thread about substance abuse on the WC so I won't write all that out again here.</p><p></p><p>I just talked with difficult child a little about the sex question- I feel better now- I'm convinced nothing has actually happened yet with anyone. Also, he said since I had confiscated his cell right before the meeting with PO, he had texted all his friends before giving me the phone and told them our home number and said he would get back with them to let them know if he'd been allowed to come home. I hadn't thought about the fact that his friends are probably assuming or interested in finding out if he was put in detention Wed. Why is she calling late at night? because she has a life and goes out with her friends and just chats with me sometimes after she comes home. He still has the condom. We'll have a couple of more conversations about the inappropriateness of an 18yo and 15yo being "good friends" if this doesn't fade away after a couple of days. Since she's a neighbor and they did chat before, I can see that people would want to talk to him after his release- I hadn't even told anyone where he was or what had happened. So, "acquaintances" I have no problem with- "good friends" or more, I'll discourage that as much as possible at this age.</p><p></p><p>Oh- I had thought she was out of high school because she's 18 but difficult child says she just turned 18 and is a senior this year. Apparently she's been giving him the scoop on high school life and she told him to be careful what friends he chose because she had thought some "cool" people were her friends but it turned into a bad story. He told me that last part last night but it didn't start to add up until I put it with a couple of things he told me this morning.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 352951, member: 3699"] At this point, difficult child now knows that PO already knows he did the drugs and difficult child told me himself he did so it's just a question of whether or not the test will come back positive. That is probably a question in difficult child's mind because, as he admitted to mentor and me, he tried to flush his system and he's probably interested in finding out if it works or not. The discussion between PO and me about what to do about it is covered in my thread about substance abuse on the WC so I won't write all that out again here. I just talked with difficult child a little about the sex question- I feel better now- I'm convinced nothing has actually happened yet with anyone. Also, he said since I had confiscated his cell right before the meeting with PO, he had texted all his friends before giving me the phone and told them our home number and said he would get back with them to let them know if he'd been allowed to come home. I hadn't thought about the fact that his friends are probably assuming or interested in finding out if he was put in detention Wed. Why is she calling late at night? because she has a life and goes out with her friends and just chats with me sometimes after she comes home. He still has the condom. We'll have a couple of more conversations about the inappropriateness of an 18yo and 15yo being "good friends" if this doesn't fade away after a couple of days. Since she's a neighbor and they did chat before, I can see that people would want to talk to him after his release- I hadn't even told anyone where he was or what had happened. So, "acquaintances" I have no problem with- "good friends" or more, I'll discourage that as much as possible at this age. Oh- I had thought she was out of high school because she's 18 but difficult child says she just turned 18 and is a senior this year. Apparently she's been giving him the scoop on high school life and she told him to be careful what friends he chose because she had thought some "cool" people were her friends but it turned into a bad story. He told me that last part last night but it didn't start to add up until I put it with a couple of things he told me this morning. [/QUOTE]
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