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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 353015" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Oh- I'm not up all night. I'm just staying up later than I was before spring break, then we're both sleeping later so that part isn't too bad. And difficult child is carrying a condom- and it hasn't been used yet- LOL- what I'm trying to say is that I checked and he still has it, so obviously it hasn't been used. Sheww...I think I got that out correctly! My concern was that since I know he did drugs, he might have had sex that night. He hasn't had opportunity to do anything since last weekend. If he has a condom, I think he would use it. If he ends up having sex, I will provide him more just to stay on the safe side- I'm just still hoping I can prolong that a little longer until his head is on a little straighter and it's someone he's been dating and they care at least some about each other. But when the girl called, I guess my mind immediately wondered if he'd had sex the first and second nights he was out- and he only had one condom- I don't know- when he flies thru A, B, and C so fast, I guess I'm ready to jump to believe he did D and E, too.</p><p></p><p>He's still saying that now that he only kept going with his violations last week because he really believed that the first one would automatically get him recommitted so he thought he might as well do whatever he wanted until he was locked up, but now that he knows it doesn't work that way and he has a good chance of not getting locked up if he does what he's supposed to now, he will try. All I can say is that it does appear that he has tried last week and so far thru this weekend. We do have some tense moments and difficult conversations- you know we are still working thru a lot of emotional baggage with each other and he has his own teetering thoughts to work thru and I have my parental worries as a result- not a normal life for either of us, but probably normal to be going thru these processes under the circumstances. </p><p></p><p>What worried me so much when I started this thread was him talking about not seeing what would be wrong with him doing pot when he gets off parole because it's not addictive and he thought he could do it and not end up doing harder drugs. Oh yeah sure, son, that will be fine. NOT Well, let's just hope he makes it to a day of getting out of this system and off parole. And that by that time he's seen how stupid that approach would be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 353015, member: 3699"] Oh- I'm not up all night. I'm just staying up later than I was before spring break, then we're both sleeping later so that part isn't too bad. And difficult child is carrying a condom- and it hasn't been used yet- LOL- what I'm trying to say is that I checked and he still has it, so obviously it hasn't been used. Sheww...I think I got that out correctly! My concern was that since I know he did drugs, he might have had sex that night. He hasn't had opportunity to do anything since last weekend. If he has a condom, I think he would use it. If he ends up having sex, I will provide him more just to stay on the safe side- I'm just still hoping I can prolong that a little longer until his head is on a little straighter and it's someone he's been dating and they care at least some about each other. But when the girl called, I guess my mind immediately wondered if he'd had sex the first and second nights he was out- and he only had one condom- I don't know- when he flies thru A, B, and C so fast, I guess I'm ready to jump to believe he did D and E, too. He's still saying that now that he only kept going with his violations last week because he really believed that the first one would automatically get him recommitted so he thought he might as well do whatever he wanted until he was locked up, but now that he knows it doesn't work that way and he has a good chance of not getting locked up if he does what he's supposed to now, he will try. All I can say is that it does appear that he has tried last week and so far thru this weekend. We do have some tense moments and difficult conversations- you know we are still working thru a lot of emotional baggage with each other and he has his own teetering thoughts to work thru and I have my parental worries as a result- not a normal life for either of us, but probably normal to be going thru these processes under the circumstances. What worried me so much when I started this thread was him talking about not seeing what would be wrong with him doing pot when he gets off parole because it's not addictive and he thought he could do it and not end up doing harder drugs. Oh yeah sure, son, that will be fine. NOT Well, let's just hope he makes it to a day of getting out of this system and off parole. And that by that time he's seen how stupid that approach would be. [/QUOTE]
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