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Something I have never understood about my difficult children.
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 461690" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I totally understand if you don't want to do things like the hair dye. It does take a certain amount of your energy because you must do it and then there will be some conflama over the results of them using the product. I also agree that timing blow-ups carefully so they don't become background noise but continue to make difficult child want to move out is important.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion you need to give her a move-out date. I know you want to help her, but having her live iwth you makes your life a lot less enjoyable and you have earned the right to a peaceful home with-o difficult child problems. She needs a goal, a date to move out by or she may jsut wait until the boyfriend wants her to move in, which could take a long time. I know living with various boyfriends is not great for her or the kids, but it is her choice and her right to make that choice. </p><p></p><p>I hope you get your home back soon and you can survive her gfgness until she does leave. Keep shoving the fact that you are a real person in her face, and don't fall for it when she gets upset at you because you being upset over stuff she has done to you bothers her. Don't let her distract you by making you the problem!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 461690, member: 1233"] I totally understand if you don't want to do things like the hair dye. It does take a certain amount of your energy because you must do it and then there will be some conflama over the results of them using the product. I also agree that timing blow-ups carefully so they don't become background noise but continue to make difficult child want to move out is important. in my opinion you need to give her a move-out date. I know you want to help her, but having her live iwth you makes your life a lot less enjoyable and you have earned the right to a peaceful home with-o difficult child problems. She needs a goal, a date to move out by or she may jsut wait until the boyfriend wants her to move in, which could take a long time. I know living with various boyfriends is not great for her or the kids, but it is her choice and her right to make that choice. I hope you get your home back soon and you can survive her gfgness until she does leave. Keep shoving the fact that you are a real person in her face, and don't fall for it when she gets upset at you because you being upset over stuff she has done to you bothers her. Don't let her distract you by making you the problem! [/QUOTE]
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