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Sometimes I just hate being a grown up
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 465863" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Absolutely trust your gut on this. Yes it might be awkward. AND, if you have a little wimp inside you like I do and feel the need to make it softer....just in case he is not the ummmmm...that you think (and I think too...huge warning signals that at the very least it would not be a healthy emotional relationship), you could explain that his conversation brought up good questions so you discussed it with your children's therapist and he/she recommended that no, they not have contact. They are working on issues in a very systematic way and it is important to stick to that plan. If he gets upset then he is not as genuinely concerned for her well being as he said he was. You will have your proof then. If he understands then great and you wont have to worry because you still will not have that contact.. </p><p></p><p>Just an idea.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 465863, member: 12886"] Absolutely trust your gut on this. Yes it might be awkward. AND, if you have a little wimp inside you like I do and feel the need to make it softer....just in case he is not the ummmmm...that you think (and I think too...huge warning signals that at the very least it would not be a healthy emotional relationship), you could explain that his conversation brought up good questions so you discussed it with your children's therapist and he/she recommended that no, they not have contact. They are working on issues in a very systematic way and it is important to stick to that plan. If he gets upset then he is not as genuinely concerned for her well being as he said he was. You will have your proof then. If he understands then great and you wont have to worry because you still will not have that contact.. Just an idea. [/QUOTE]
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