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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 465936" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p><strong>Malika,</strong> yes he is. And therein lies part of the concern. This man has never married, although he has had a few long term relationships. The above concerns individually kinda reflect that. All together they become more odd. It was difficult for me to see it because it is spread out. Our contact with him is only 2-4 times per year (may be more frequent now since Dad is spending more time in FL because this is where his doctors are, so we will be visiting more often) by the way there are more items for concern, but in my opinion even more subtle, but again, all added up it's really odd.</p><p></p><p>When I said I don't think he's doing this consciously, I mean it. I don't think he's going to "pounce" on DD1 at any given moment. It's more subtle, but just as sinister. It's like he's 'groomimg' both her and me, for her to be his 'legitimate' girlfriend, and trying to get us believing it would be a good idea. EWWWW.</p><p></p><p>Diplomatic and skillful, eh? Well, thanks for the vote of confidence! I've never thought of myself as either, but I do hope I live up to that expectation. Fortunately even if I don't, the social fallout in this situation will be minimal. Worst case scenario will be changing the way we visit with Dad.</p><p></p><p>It reaaly sux though. It was nice that the kids has a this man to hang out with. Far from perfect, but a nice, gentle man that actually took interest in them (unlike thier father). Such a freakin' shame he's got <strong>too</strong> much interest in one child in particular. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sigh.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sigh:" title="sigh :sigh:" data-shortname=":sigh:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 465936, member: 11965"] [B]Malika,[/B] yes he is. And therein lies part of the concern. This man has never married, although he has had a few long term relationships. The above concerns individually kinda reflect that. All together they become more odd. It was difficult for me to see it because it is spread out. Our contact with him is only 2-4 times per year (may be more frequent now since Dad is spending more time in FL because this is where his doctors are, so we will be visiting more often) by the way there are more items for concern, but in my opinion even more subtle, but again, all added up it's really odd. When I said I don't think he's doing this consciously, I mean it. I don't think he's going to "pounce" on DD1 at any given moment. It's more subtle, but just as sinister. It's like he's 'groomimg' both her and me, for her to be his 'legitimate' girlfriend, and trying to get us believing it would be a good idea. EWWWW. Diplomatic and skillful, eh? Well, thanks for the vote of confidence! I've never thought of myself as either, but I do hope I live up to that expectation. Fortunately even if I don't, the social fallout in this situation will be minimal. Worst case scenario will be changing the way we visit with Dad. It reaaly sux though. It was nice that the kids has a this man to hang out with. Far from perfect, but a nice, gentle man that actually took interest in them (unlike thier father). Such a freakin' shame he's got [B]too[/B] much interest in one child in particular. :sigh: [/QUOTE]
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