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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 465985" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Keista--</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry, but I'm going to type some uncomfortable things...</p><p></p><p>The thing about pedophiles is - they honestly believe, on some level, that the child <em>loves them back</em> in a romantic way. That's the deviation...</p><p></p><p>And yes, he is grooming ALL of you. He wants to touch her, hug her, rub up against her....and he wants it to be "normal", be "legit" - so that if the child says "He touched my bikini bottom"...everyone will think it was an accident - a misunderstanding - no, no....they were just playing in the pool....he was picking her up to throw her in the deep end...that's all....</p><p></p><p>If you haven't already - you need to talk to your daughters about the dangers of "Kinda-knows" (are you familiar with that term?) Everyone teaches their kids about being careful of strangers - but the REAL danger is the people they "kinda-know"...like this guy. Tell your daughters EXACTLY where the line is. If he shouldn't be hugging them - tell them so! If he shouldn't be swimming with them and playing tickle games with them - tell them so! Otherwise, because he is a "Kinda-Know"....maybe it's OK ?</p><p></p><p>So sorry...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 465985, member: 6546"] Keista-- I'm sorry, but I'm going to type some uncomfortable things... The thing about pedophiles is - they honestly believe, on some level, that the child [I]loves them back[/I] in a romantic way. That's the deviation... And yes, he is grooming ALL of you. He wants to touch her, hug her, rub up against her....and he wants it to be "normal", be "legit" - so that if the child says "He touched my bikini bottom"...everyone will think it was an accident - a misunderstanding - no, no....they were just playing in the pool....he was picking her up to throw her in the deep end...that's all.... If you haven't already - you need to talk to your daughters about the dangers of "Kinda-knows" (are you familiar with that term?) Everyone teaches their kids about being careful of strangers - but the REAL danger is the people they "kinda-know"...like this guy. Tell your daughters EXACTLY where the line is. If he shouldn't be hugging them - tell them so! If he shouldn't be swimming with them and playing tickle games with them - tell them so! Otherwise, because he is a "Kinda-Know"....maybe it's OK ? So sorry... [/QUOTE]
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