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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 465996" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p><strong>DF</strong> thanks for the heads up. I've spoken to the girls about "kinda-knows" AND "really knows" as well. Their bodies are THEIR OWN and not for anyone else to touch. Got into the details of even doctors must have mom or a nurse in the room. Even Mom or Dad aren't supposed to touch unless it's emergency/something hurts, but try to wait for mom to get home. But even kids with the best "training" can fall victim. What's most uncomfortable right now is the fact that I was actually second guessing myself thinking I was seeing more than there is.</p><p></p><p>He has no record and is an active member of "our community" so even if there were allegations of anything in the past I would have heard about it. </p><p></p><p><strong>DDD</strong> I'm hoping he respects my wishes and stays away, and then I just tell the kids that Mr A is busy. Not sure how I'll handle it if he pops up though, but will have Dad and his wife in the loop, so, we'll figure something out. If he does decide to "stalk", then at least I will have something to call the cops with, but again, we're the visitors near his home, in a retirement community no less. I used to want to grow-up real fast as well. Amazingly, DD2 says she's definitely not in a rush to grow up! I'm happy but it concerns me too. Am I making it look THAT hard?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 465996, member: 11965"] [B]DF[/B] thanks for the heads up. I've spoken to the girls about "kinda-knows" AND "really knows" as well. Their bodies are THEIR OWN and not for anyone else to touch. Got into the details of even doctors must have mom or a nurse in the room. Even Mom or Dad aren't supposed to touch unless it's emergency/something hurts, but try to wait for mom to get home. But even kids with the best "training" can fall victim. What's most uncomfortable right now is the fact that I was actually second guessing myself thinking I was seeing more than there is. He has no record and is an active member of "our community" so even if there were allegations of anything in the past I would have heard about it. [B]DDD[/B] I'm hoping he respects my wishes and stays away, and then I just tell the kids that Mr A is busy. Not sure how I'll handle it if he pops up though, but will have Dad and his wife in the loop, so, we'll figure something out. If he does decide to "stalk", then at least I will have something to call the cops with, but again, we're the visitors near his home, in a retirement community no less. I used to want to grow-up real fast as well. Amazingly, DD2 says she's definitely not in a rush to grow up! I'm happy but it concerns me too. Am I making it look THAT hard? [/QUOTE]
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