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Son 32 Still lives with parents
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 757208" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Andy, you are a good, caring man who needs help badly. Validation. Your son is not a little boy. He is 32! Have you ever sought out real life help, like we did? We go to Al Anon and a therapist who understands addiction and how it affects the family. Without personal real life help we never could have saved our marriage or let our oldest go her own way. Your son is very abusive and stronger than you and your wife. I don't think you are safe in your home with him.</p><p></p><p>Would your wife go to therapy with you? If not you would probably still benefit greatly by therapy. You have a neutral third party who can guide you toward deciding what you need to do for yourself. You can only control one person. You. You have no control over your son's behavior or your wife's. But you have total control over yourself. I personally love this forum, but I feel everyone can benefit from real time support. So I recommend Al Anon or therapy or both. A church family can also help. Now during these times there are virtual meetings and virtual therapy appointments.</p><p></p><p>My prayers and good wishes are with you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 757208, member: 23706"] Andy, you are a good, caring man who needs help badly. Validation. Your son is not a little boy. He is 32! Have you ever sought out real life help, like we did? We go to Al Anon and a therapist who understands addiction and how it affects the family. Without personal real life help we never could have saved our marriage or let our oldest go her own way. Your son is very abusive and stronger than you and your wife. I don't think you are safe in your home with him. Would your wife go to therapy with you? If not you would probably still benefit greatly by therapy. You have a neutral third party who can guide you toward deciding what you need to do for yourself. You can only control one person. You. You have no control over your son's behavior or your wife's. But you have total control over yourself. I personally love this forum, but I feel everyone can benefit from real time support. So I recommend Al Anon or therapy or both. A church family can also help. Now during these times there are virtual meetings and virtual therapy appointments. My prayers and good wishes are with you. [/QUOTE]
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