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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 196574" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>It is not normal for an 11 year old to act out on a 6 and 3 year old no matter how curious he is. I would not try to sugar-coat this. Has he maybe been abused himself?</p><p>"True Crime" is actual crime stories. And many of the men started out with violent fantasies that they didn't act on at first, but they escalated. I'm not saying he will end up that way, but getting him help if paramount. My guess is he won't tell you everything that he thinks about or that has happened, but at least he is trusting you to get him help. I think he is asking you to help him from doing anything else. I would find somebody (not just anyone) who understands children who have sexual fantasies and are acting out. I am not convinced that just a regular therapist would be able to either know how serious this is or how to help him. This requires a very delicate, special type of help. It is too easy for somebody who doesn't "get it" to dismiss it, and I don't think it should be dismissed. It could get worse. It is well worth finding somebody who is famliar with this than to have something REALLY bad happen and the roof come caving in on you. There must be somebody who has special training in children with sexual problems. Good luck. (((More hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 196574, member: 1550"] It is not normal for an 11 year old to act out on a 6 and 3 year old no matter how curious he is. I would not try to sugar-coat this. Has he maybe been abused himself? "True Crime" is actual crime stories. And many of the men started out with violent fantasies that they didn't act on at first, but they escalated. I'm not saying he will end up that way, but getting him help if paramount. My guess is he won't tell you everything that he thinks about or that has happened, but at least he is trusting you to get him help. I think he is asking you to help him from doing anything else. I would find somebody (not just anyone) who understands children who have sexual fantasies and are acting out. I am not convinced that just a regular therapist would be able to either know how serious this is or how to help him. This requires a very delicate, special type of help. It is too easy for somebody who doesn't "get it" to dismiss it, and I don't think it should be dismissed. It could get worse. It is well worth finding somebody who is famliar with this than to have something REALLY bad happen and the roof come caving in on you. There must be somebody who has special training in children with sexual problems. Good luck. (((More hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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