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Son called to be picked up from a dangerous situation-I refused. Sorry-VERY long!
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<blockquote data-quote="nerfherder" data-source="post: 596770" data-attributes="member: 15907"><p>OK, lemme put on my New Jersey accent. </p><p></p><p>Blackgnat, y'aint a coward. A coward wouldn't ever be reading this forum to begin with. You got a boy who knows how to get what he wants, even if it means getting wasted so's he can be all vulnerable. He's figured out how to get people who want to be his mommy, or daddy, or whatever, to have someone like him so they can feel their existence is justified. He's the coward, he's the one giving up that final level of control, the kind you got to work at and MAKE work. It's so much easier to do it his way. </p><p></p><p>Sounds like his friend Dan has just about had enough. So he goes to the link in the chain higher than him, but unfortunately that's you. </p><p></p><p>RE had it right. Sometimes we go two steps forward, one step back, and sometimes we stumble backwards a lot further than that one step 'cause someone left something on the floor behind us. But you're aware, you know what you need to do, and you're looking at how to fix yourself. That's pretty awesome right there. And his behavior plus your helping is risking your job, but does he care? Nuh uh. </p><p></p><p>"I love you and (not but!!!) I can't help you anymore." If he wants to be a Flying Walenda, he needs to know that there's some places you just can't string a safety net.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nerfherder, post: 596770, member: 15907"] OK, lemme put on my New Jersey accent. Blackgnat, y'aint a coward. A coward wouldn't ever be reading this forum to begin with. You got a boy who knows how to get what he wants, even if it means getting wasted so's he can be all vulnerable. He's figured out how to get people who want to be his mommy, or daddy, or whatever, to have someone like him so they can feel their existence is justified. He's the coward, he's the one giving up that final level of control, the kind you got to work at and MAKE work. It's so much easier to do it his way. Sounds like his friend Dan has just about had enough. So he goes to the link in the chain higher than him, but unfortunately that's you. RE had it right. Sometimes we go two steps forward, one step back, and sometimes we stumble backwards a lot further than that one step 'cause someone left something on the floor behind us. But you're aware, you know what you need to do, and you're looking at how to fix yourself. That's pretty awesome right there. And his behavior plus your helping is risking your job, but does he care? Nuh uh. "I love you and (not but!!!) I can't help you anymore." If he wants to be a Flying Walenda, he needs to know that there's some places you just can't string a safety net. [/QUOTE]
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