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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 445800"><p>OK I would listen to your heart and mind and do what you feel with you can live with the best. Know that whatever you do you can't control his behavior or the outcome. I would not put yourself in jepordy in the process... so if losing the bail is going to put you into financial trouble then don't do it, if it won't then you can consider it.Our situation was somewhat similar although the crime was not as serious and my son was younger. My son was held without bail so bailing him out was not an option. However they did do a plea deal which we helped with which included him going to rehab, being on probation for 2 years and drug testing. I think those things have helped my son.... not as much as I would like mind you but he does seem motivated to stay out of trouble because he really really does not want to go back to jail.My gut would be to not bail him out but to agree to pay for rehab (if you can afford it) and tell the lawyer that so that if they come up with a plea agreement that could be part of it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 445800"] OK I would listen to your heart and mind and do what you feel with you can live with the best. Know that whatever you do you can't control his behavior or the outcome. I would not put yourself in jepordy in the process... so if losing the bail is going to put you into financial trouble then don't do it, if it won't then you can consider it.Our situation was somewhat similar although the crime was not as serious and my son was younger. My son was held without bail so bailing him out was not an option. However they did do a plea deal which we helped with which included him going to rehab, being on probation for 2 years and drug testing. I think those things have helped my son.... not as much as I would like mind you but he does seem motivated to stay out of trouble because he really really does not want to go back to jail.My gut would be to not bail him out but to agree to pay for rehab (if you can afford it) and tell the lawyer that so that if they come up with a plea agreement that could be part of it. [/QUOTE]
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