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Sonic back in the mental health system...Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) or something.
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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 533412" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>A passive reader ? It seems that you don't know me at all. </p><p>And no, it's not a question of being <em>caregiver or not</em>, but I know that if I didn't play the detective for myself, seeking answers to get the care I need and maybe more, you would not talk to me right now because I would had been in the beyond world (or as you say, in the heaven). </p><p></p><p>So since here, you feel threatened and in concurrence, I can live without you. I can live without someone feeling threatened because their world is not as perfectly organized as they want it to be. </p><p>I apply what I say : I pick up my battles, and think that it does not worth to fight for such peculiar things. There are other more pressing issues (like preparing my going back to university for doing something I love or the law I am fighting to make change) that it does not worth a fight for people who feel threatened because someone else tries to give a help, it does not worth giving up my health for such ridiculous fights. </p><p>So now, I unsubscribe myself, and you can continue to wish for a perfectly organized world where everyone at their own place and everyone is conform to the normalcy policy. Fortunately for the world, there are people who, despite the "abnormalcy", continue to hope and work for a better world to leave for the future generations (like my GP and my mom. The only ones who stayed even when everyone left the boat because "there is no hope for that pretending to suffer"). They continue to hope for the better even when everything fells apart, that the person cannot be helped. Yes, they persist to try and help even when no hope seems to be left, they even play the detective even when against any "well meaning order" prevent them to do so. </p><p>Excuse me to admire them, and admire their wish to never give up even the person who seems not to deserve help and not to be someone we can help. Excuse me to admire these persons who, even when the person is not someone who "deserves" to be helped and "pretends to suffer", tries again and again to help her no matter how hopeless it may seem. </p><p>Excuse me to wish to be like them and not thinking that "she made the choice to suffer, so she deserves to be without help". </p><p>My father suffers from substance abuse, and yes, he needs help no matter what, and yes, I will continue to persist to try and help him even when it seems hopeless. Because hopeless is a word which does not exist in my vocabulary, no matter what it can be thought. </p><p></p><p>In the mean time, I will continue to do what I have to do, so I leave the board by unsubscribing and take all my time to help my father no matter what people may think about, may judge or whatever they want. </p><p>I don't want to become like you and wishing a perfectly organized world where everyone is at their own perfect place. So yes, I ask the unsubscription from there, no matter what.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 533412, member: 14306"] A passive reader ? It seems that you don't know me at all. And no, it's not a question of being [I]caregiver or not[/I], but I know that if I didn't play the detective for myself, seeking answers to get the care I need and maybe more, you would not talk to me right now because I would had been in the beyond world (or as you say, in the heaven). So since here, you feel threatened and in concurrence, I can live without you. I can live without someone feeling threatened because their world is not as perfectly organized as they want it to be. I apply what I say : I pick up my battles, and think that it does not worth to fight for such peculiar things. There are other more pressing issues (like preparing my going back to university for doing something I love or the law I am fighting to make change) that it does not worth a fight for people who feel threatened because someone else tries to give a help, it does not worth giving up my health for such ridiculous fights. So now, I unsubscribe myself, and you can continue to wish for a perfectly organized world where everyone at their own place and everyone is conform to the normalcy policy. Fortunately for the world, there are people who, despite the "abnormalcy", continue to hope and work for a better world to leave for the future generations (like my GP and my mom. The only ones who stayed even when everyone left the boat because "there is no hope for that pretending to suffer"). They continue to hope for the better even when everything fells apart, that the person cannot be helped. Yes, they persist to try and help even when no hope seems to be left, they even play the detective even when against any "well meaning order" prevent them to do so. Excuse me to admire them, and admire their wish to never give up even the person who seems not to deserve help and not to be someone we can help. Excuse me to admire these persons who, even when the person is not someone who "deserves" to be helped and "pretends to suffer", tries again and again to help her no matter how hopeless it may seem. Excuse me to wish to be like them and not thinking that "she made the choice to suffer, so she deserves to be without help". My father suffers from substance abuse, and yes, he needs help no matter what, and yes, I will continue to persist to try and help him even when it seems hopeless. Because hopeless is a word which does not exist in my vocabulary, no matter what it can be thought. In the mean time, I will continue to do what I have to do, so I leave the board by unsubscribing and take all my time to help my father no matter what people may think about, may judge or whatever they want. I don't want to become like you and wishing a perfectly organized world where everyone is at their own perfect place. So yes, I ask the unsubscription from there, no matter what. [/QUOTE]
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